Tomorrow...my love is only a day away

My love isn't a day away in any sense, from that song...from actually being in love, just a catchy show tune that popped into my head.
In time since my last post saying that I was sick of things I have done massive amounts of thinking. It was good, and it was bad. And in the process I enjoyed some KILLER Chinese food (with my best friends)...anyways, I thought a lot of where I want to go in life, what I want to see, who I want to be there, and mainly who I want to become and in all of that I didn't see "the Ex" and then it hit me like a "ton of bricks" that I wasn't in love anymore, and that I hadn't been in a long time. It was more or less the fact of comfort of being used to something, or someone that had been around for so long. And again with the thinking came a new level of knowing that I am doing better now, in that aspect of my life that we so often call "the love life" I am doing good. And seeing things in a new light. I am happier now being single, more so then what I ever thought I would be. And having the group of friends that I do made this process a lot easier then what I thought that it ever could be.
I know there hasn't been a lot of time in between posts, but this has been a long time coming. And I am proud of the thinking I have done, and the realizations that have come. Time has passed and more time will pass and I hope for the best.